
Imagine a society where everyone understood and knew how to appropriately respond to wounded behaviors, symptoms of stress, mental illness, grief, fear, pain.
Instead of attempting to get revenge, enable, shame, punish or publicly humiliate each other for our faults, we’d surround each other with compassion, encourage the building of strengths, promote social learning, practice conscious inclusivity, boundaries, accountability and create daily opportunities for corrective emotional experiences.
When we feel understood and accepted we can heal. Radical stuff.
Wouldn’t it be nice? xo
Facts. I just watched Day 1 of a Gabor Mate documentary, which essentially suggest the same thing. We’re all traumatized beings using coping mechanisms to get on and perpetuating more trauma on one another, until we face the trauma and stop doing that.
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He’s the man. In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts says it all. ❤️
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This is why I get tired of so much drama lately. there is an easier way.. just to love each other, support each other and try to be there as much as we can..its not rocket science. ❤ agree, totally.
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Exactly Deb. Love your brilliant heart and mind ❤️
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Aww thanks E. ❤🌹❤
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❤️❤️❤️
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Amen to that post. And thanks for that super-helpful link. I’m slapping my forehead that it’s taken me so long to put that together…
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Oh good! Glad it was helpful. Hey, humans are complicated. The effort you’ve put into understanding has love written all over it.
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Oops!! Just bit off someone’s head whom I’ve known for 30 years!
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😂ahhh, we’re only human.
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Good observation: “When we feel understood and accepted we can heal.”
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So simple and yet…🤷🏻♀️💜
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Yes, it would sure be nice 😦 ❤
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If only we were all taught this when we were children, it would be natural for us to behave with compassion toward everyone else.
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If only. Instead it somehow became a game of ‘who’s dressed good enough to sit at the cool kid table’. No wonder all the hippies took off their clothes and ran screaming ‘Love’ through the fields. A good try
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It would be nice and ever so purposeful.
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